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    Pass this along please, to women everywhere!

    I just posted a blog about Inflammatory Breast Cancer.  Why?

    It’s a rare cancer, so it may not be relevant to a lot of people.  But for those who want to know, it is more than relevant, it is extremely important and unbelievably scary.  Why?

    Stinkin’ statistics!

    When you or someone you love is diagnosed with cancer, it is tempting to look for hope in statistics.  The problem with that is that many statistics are irrelevant by the time they’re published.  Sometimes you’ll find different statistics in different places.  If the statistics are on your side, maybe it helps to look at them and maybe not.

    When I was waiting for my cancer diagnosis, my mom was going crazy on the internet, looking up all kinds of breast cancer and trying to second-guess her fear.  What I had sounded alarmingly like IBC.  She told me she said to herself, “oh please God, not that one!”  Everything she read about it sounded terrifying, the statistics not the least.  She didn’t tell me any of it.  When Dr. Brown gave me the diagnosis of Stage Three Inflammatory Breast Cancer, her tone of voice and facial expression told me it was breast cancer, period.  She told me that I had an aggressive cancer and that we would treat it aggressively, and she was optimistic because she was confident that I could handle the treatments.

    I responded to her optimism with my own.  I was very blessed to have her and the other amazing docs on my team taking care of me.  I didn’t know that I had the bogeyman of breast cancers until later, after  my “phenomenal” response to chemotherapy.

    So, if you or anyone you know is facing cancer, forget about statistics if they aren’t great.  If they are, so much the better.  Each of us gets to choose where to direct our energy, and for me the pursuit of my own happiness and well being was the most important task on earth in 2007.

    I still try to remember that. When Mama’s happy, everybody is happy!

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